Given many thoughts for this relationship tat i am having, I do find myself as a lucky ger who has a boyfriend who has set himself goals and things he want in life. Maybe not a gerfriend like me? Cuz i have not been a good one for quite some time as we reali had quarrels on and off for months. I do reali hope tat things will go well after our cool off period. Something to share with everyone... This is a phase tat i saw and i agreed with it.
This is how it goes:
You must speak to be heard,
but sometimes
You have to be silent to be appreciated.
Sometimes is good to jus keep myself away from talking? Tat is wat i feel, cuz i'm a person who speaks my mind. But there's always good and bad to be such a person. Cuz some things we feel may be right but it may not be right to someone who has a different mindset. So to me, people who are like me.. Have to reali think and put ourselves in other's point of view den speak up. (The above is one of the problem with me)
Though it's kinda hard to do as compared to typing or saying it, but when there's a will there's always a way. And never give up is the only thing to do. I had found my way of becoming a ger who is more calmed down by things around me, finding alternatives before speaking or doing something. I actually found out lots of things tat i can do to change and be a better person. It's jus too much tat i can say. All tat i can say is yes, when there's a will there's always a way.
Maybe it's cause of my work, i tend to find ways out cuz i have to work alone and do things tat i'm not taught before. Find a way out and things will be jus fine. Getting some nags or scolding is jus part of life. So i have to live with it too...! For me, it's through work tat i found my solution in changing to be a better person..
My resolutions for year 2009, there's only 3!
1. Be a better person
2. Be a filial daughter last but not least...
3. Be a better gerfriend
Gers and friends who happen to read this, dun give up and prove tat you can do it too!
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